[GreenKeys] Methinks I am wasting my time... or am I ?
Don Robert House
k9tty at dls.net
Fri Jan 2 00:05:13 EST 2009
Hmmm... Not a single reply... Perhaps I should not bother to write
any more of my memories.
Email has an inherit problem. It tends to be either send only or
receive only...
No expression... no images for the most part. The written word can
convey different meanings.
Readers can easily misunderstand the writer's intentions.
As time goes on more people have less time to share and more things
they have to do...
A wise man once told me that "No one cares how much you know, until
they know how much you care."
I remember a good friend that always answered my emails. We usually
had lots of memories to share.
We communicated at least once every week. Then one span of time for
two weeks and then nothing.
Another two weeks passed.
His daughter called me and said that he was "gone."
I asked some more questions and told her of our mutual experiences as
designers for IBT and Gen. Telco.
She told me that I was one of only a very few people that communicated
with him. He had lost his third
sales job in a row and was depressed. One day he drove to a rental
agency and rented a small trailer.
Then he went to the liquor store and bought a six pack of beer. It
was winter and he brought a heater
with him. He parked the car and trailer and got inside of the
trailer, started up the heater and only got
half way through his second beer.
I have always wondered if I could have made a difference if he would
have contacted me that last week
just one more time...
I miss him. I sent all the photos I had of him over the years to his
widow. I never heard from his family
again.
Sometimes it takes more than emails to truly communicate with one
another. Especially in Winter.
Do you know that 85 percent of men over the age of 60 suffer from
depression. If you feel you are not
totally "yourself" see a good doctor.
And now for something different...
HAPPY NEW YEAR.
Don
K9TTY
Tracer of open circuits and lost causes...
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